Self-confidence

One of the topics that I am going to talk about is the purpose of the self-confidence. I see mainly through my channels eyes- when I read the emails with her or listen to the conversations she has with people, her clients and friends- that many are suffering from a lack of believing in themselves. I see many who lack confidence in their daily lives, the confidence that they are not going to accomplish their daily tasks like- making a good lunch for their family, being fit, having enough money and fulfill every bit of the societies needs in one humans life. That is not what one needs and wants. Because this is not what we are or the God is asking of you. You are so serious, rarely laughing and having fun because you think you need to perfectly organize your day, finish everything that you think you need to do to be able to feel satisfied. You long for the weekend and then you are feeling guilty if you are not doing anything. But sometimes it is in a Universal accordance to leave the things to be as they are and do them when one feels right and has the wish and the passion to do it. You have to understand dear soul that everything you do and whatever you make, you put your energy in to it. Now imagine or just think about it for a minute, about the energy that you are putting in to your cooking, making things, doing your work- when you do not feel any love, no passion and are just doing it out of the obligation?! Would it not be better to leave it for some other time. Think about that in the moments when you do something because your Ego is pushing you. Are you putting the right energy in to it or not? Would it be better to do it some other time or give it to someone else who is going to do it with much more love? The Universe will always find the right person for the work to be done if you ask for it and let go of the guilt of not doing it yourself.

How can we all create a positive and better world if we all work like robots and do not put our love, our attention, our positive energy in to every second of our lives?

And to go back to the lack of self confidence. It is mainly because the society puts so many demands on the soul. It is the illusionary world created by the Ego, by the Self. Everyone thinks that having a big house, a high position in a company and a huge salary- one can say to be successful. But often these accomplishments do not bring any fulfillment or happiness just more worries and more demands. Yes, they are people who are born to lead, who are born to be the managers of the huge companies. But the rest is born with some other unique talents of doing something else in a creative field, artistic field, alternative filed. There are so many possibilities in this world. And why do you wish to work and go in to something that you do not like. It is the lack of the self confidence, it is the lack of trust that you are not worthy or want be able to live with what you like to do. We in the Spirit world see so many people suffering in their work places and see their talents wasted, because we know their uniqueness and we know their soul contracts. Often those people do what they like and where their passion is in their spare time, thinking and wishing that this could be their life work.

But because of the lack of the self esteem and strong Ego telling them it is just a dream that “could maybe” become a reality in the old days, they are giving up. And this is sad for us, very sad.

Nobody said it will be easy if you decide to truly dedicate your life to the one work you believe you could do or wish to do, but it is a matter of fulfilling your souls request, mission and purpose. It is about you being yourself.

And also this way the self confidence grows. My channel for example, she always knew that one day she will work for the Spirit, that she will work for us. And this wish was burning inside of her until one day she decided to say goodbye to her old work and dedicate herself to the Spiritual work. It wasn’t easy at the beginning, it was not easy because she had a lots of fears about how, when, where and what to do. And her Self tortured her and she started to question if she did the right choice, if she is on the right path. But deep down she knew it was the right choice. She needed to release a lots of anger, lots of fear, lots of control issues- even to allow me to speak through her. So it is not an easy path. But if one truly believes that what is inside will blossom and one day become a beautiful flower, it is something that brings a huge satisfaction.

So my message for all of you who are thinking of leaving their unsatisfied relationships or work or any situation that does not bring you happiness- Truly believe that you are worthy of having all the fulfillment in the world. Do not listen what others say, follow your passion , follow your path. Many world known people were also once people who doubted and had fears, but they followed the light and signals in their hart. And many, if not all, were judged by the society but never lost their goals from the focus. Their hopes, wishes and dreams were never lost, their spirit to go on. Be one of them. If you need motivation read the biography or talk to someone from you surrounding who you admire and who accomplished something positive and you will see they had the same fears and doubts you have now. You are born to be happy to have all the abundance. To be who you are. And this is the most important thing for your soul growth.

Nada